CRAB MENTALITY?!

"if i can't have it, neither can you". meaning If someone tries to lift himself/herself up someone will pull you down. No one wants to see you on top. No one wants to see you HAPPY I guess. I really hate this Crab mentality thingy. People will bring you down just to get themselves on top. They will say negative things about you which is not really true.

All I can say is that STOP being so jealous instead be happy for them especially if it is your FAMILY, FRIENDS. Why don't you just let yourself be responsible and act at your age? If it is your family let them pursue their dreams! Having this crab mentality means you have a very poor personality!

Actually, I have witnessed some situations like this. But what is good about some of our kababayans as what i have observed is that when one member of the family went abroad he/she will help their parents to migrate. once it is settled the parents will help the other family members to migrate too. :) very NICE. very EASY. I am very amused with them being so UNSELFISH. :)

That's all :)

-TRIXIBELLE ANACTA